Unpredictable Life . . .
Was talking to Simei this morning, and i heard this shocking news from her. One of her ex-ploymate, passed away. I know who's her friend but doesn't know her personally. I been hearing Simei talking about her being sick, changing job and getting married. She's getting married this year Oct, but out of the blue she passed away this morning. And the sad thing was, they haven meet up with each other for years even when they tried so hard arranging one.
I know how it feels losing a close friend in the middle of the night. It's so heartbreaking and painful to accept the fact. If am being put into that position, i guess the pain of losing would kill me directly.
things happens everyday, just that it doesn't take place in our life. We all knows that it's really painful seeing someone losing a close kin, friend or someone. But the real pain will only hit you hard on ur emotions and heart when it really takes place. We won't know how painful it is to lose a close friend, a friend that you can talk everything about, a friend who knows you well and everything and reason u do things, a friend who will always be htere for you when u needed someone, a friend who gives in everything just for the friendship, a friend who fights with you but still cares about you. Sometime, we won't realize the power of friendship can bring. The kind of lift and support it gives. We human always take things for granted, thinking that friends will always be there and they shold be there when you need them. But we din realize, it takes effort and commitment to prolong a frendship life.
We overlook the power of frenship, that power that gives you the strength in all the things you do. And how many people take the effort to maintain that relationship? how many of us have taken it for granted?
what we could have been, 25.6.09.